Folks, the principles for success in anything, including marriage, works for anyone who chooses to apply them, not Christians alone. There are are many unbelievers across the world enjoying outstanding success in their marriage and family lives because these principles are no respecter of persons.
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Respect. Compromise. Forgiveness. Openness. Effective Communication. Trust. Kindness. Gentleness. These are some principles that make any relationship/marriage work, especially if it’s mutual. Having Christ is to our advantage but the effects of applying these principles are not automatic.
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There are many spiritual people who have marital problems. Why? Because the principles have to be activated. My husband? often says it’s possible to be a prayer warrior and yet be a marriage failure. Because, while prayer is crucial, that’s not all we need; God requires our action as He releases the grace.
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So as you pray, hope, wish, for the home you desire, make sure you’re also working for it. Your marriage and family life are in the making of your hands. If you believe you have done all you know to do without positive results, please seek godly counsel.
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In other news, I’ll be recommending books a lot more this year; I mentioned a CPYF (Crisis-Proof Your Family) book club at one point. Well, here we go… (I hope you enjoy reading?)! There’s so much to learn, people!! Please try to get the books but if they are not easily accessible, just apply what you learn and God will honor your efforts!
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If there are books you think should be recommended that add value in any way (doesn’t have to be just relationships but of course that’s my core focus?), please indicate so. I’ll read them if I can easily get them and recommend if I consider them helpful! I’m no expert, just here to help by sharing #light I’ve personally received from God’s Word and applied, and also from the #light I’ve received from others.
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Whatever I recommend, I also apply but each one’s home is different so as always seek godly counsel for your specific case. Wishing you God’s best in your marriage and family life! Cheers…