Where there is peace, there’ll always be progress. When you and your spouse are a house united, you are able to focus on building a successful family life and effectively pursuing your individual and collective assignments in life. Where there is peace, you feel better, look better and are able to give your best to your spouse and children.
Strife brings stagnation. Division hinders progress. When couples invest their energy into arguing and tearing each other down, there will be disorder. Have you noticed that in many homes where fighting is the order of the day, things just don’t seem to be working as they should? Because where there is strife, confusion, the door is opened to every evil work (James 3:16).
Your home is meant to add to your joy, not be a point of frustration or sadness. Your marriage is meant to boost your destiny, not stagnate it. The things you may have struggled with as a single individual should be easily achievable in marriage because two are better than one (Ecc 4:9). Where two are worse off in marriage, something is fundamentally wrong and should be corrected. God’s intentions are that your home is just like the garden of Eden (which means delight), not a like a war-zone.
Be conscious of this truth and do your part in ensuring your home becomes and remains a place of pleasure. Every conflict can be settled in peace if the wisdom of God is applied. It is where wisdom is lacking that crisis abounds. Wisdom ALWAYS produces peace. When you have peace of mind, it makes all areas of your life productive.
I’m praying for you deeply that your home remains a place of pleasure and delight for you. And may you enjoy unending peace and progress individually and as a family. Where things are out of order, may the wisdom of God that you put to work, cause restoration in Jesus name, amen!
As always, Seek for the help that you need so you can get back on track. Cheers…