Folks, in order to have a fulfilling marital experience, here’s my humble counsel. Among other things, we must:

1. ACCEPT each other’s Past. It has happened and can’t be changed. Just learn from it and desist from bringing it up unnecessarily!
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2. SUPPORT each other’s Present. Be there for your spouse as needed. This is the Now & how you handle the present determines what becomes of the future!
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3. ENCOURAGE each other’s Future. Build each other’s morales, cheer each other on. Be a helper indeed as you grow and advance in life! See the potentials in your spouse; see what they can become & do your part in helping them get there. Focus on bringing out the best in them. 
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4. RESIST strife and disunity. Remember a home that’s divided will eventually disintegrate. Be a promoter of peace always.
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5. APPLY (heavenly) wisdom & understanding at all times especially to diffuse tension/conflict.
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6. Be prayerful and keep relying on God’s grace to do the above and much more!
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If you believe you’ve done all you know to do and you’re not getting the best out of your home, please seek godly counsel.
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Wishing you God’s best in your marriage and family life! Cheers…